Dildos

Our dildos range from lifelike realistic designs to smooth, curved silicone and fantasy shapes inspired by dragons, krakens and ghosts. Brands include Loving Joy, Mina, SilexD, RealCocks and Adrien Lastic, and most have a suction-cup base, so many can be used hands-free or in a harness.

Material and feel

Silicone dildos are non-porous, easy to clean and come in a range of firmness. Dual-density designs, like SilexD's, combine a firm core with a softer outer layer for a more realistic feel. Skin-like TPE dildos are softer still but porous, so they need thorough cleaning and drying. Water-based lube is safe with both.

Size and shape

Check the insertable length and the width at the widest point. For a first dildo, a moderate size with a gently tapered tip is usually easiest. Curved designs, like Mina's silicone dildos, are angled towards the G-spot or prostate, while straight, realistic shapes give a fuller feeling.

Suction cups and harnesses

A suction-cup base sticks to smooth surfaces such as tiles or glass for hands-free play. Many suction-cup dildos also fit an O-ring harness; browse strap-ons for harnesses and compatible dildos.

Anal use

Only use a dildo anally if it has a flared or suction-cup base. Our anal dildos are chosen with that in mind. Want vibration as well? See realistic vibrators.

Common questions

What size dildo should I buy? Compare it with something you already know is comfortable, such as a toy you own, and check both length and width. If in doubt, size down: you can always move up later.

Can I boil a silicone dildo? Solid silicone toys without a motor can often be sterilised in boiling water, but check the care instructions first. Never boil TPE, and check the instructions for dual-density designs.

Will a suction cup stick to any surface? Suction cups grip on smooth, non-porous surfaces such as tiles, glass or a mirror. They won't hold on textured or porous surfaces like wood or painted walls.

What goes well with a dildo? A clitoral vibrator for dual stimulation, or a harness if your dildo has a suction-cup or flared base. For lifelike shapes, see realistic dildos and dongs, and for temperature play, glass dildos.

This guide is general information, not medical advice. Always follow the instructions that come with your product, and speak to your GP or a pharmacist first if you have a health condition, are pregnant or have any concerns.