Vibe Virgins

Buying your first vibrator? Vibe Virgins collects the toys we’d suggest starting with: compact bullets, simple clitoral massagers, gentle G-spot vibes and a biodegradable vibrator from Gaia, alongside picks from LELO, Svakom, Mina and Loving Joy. They’re easy to use and small enough to keep in a bedside drawer.

Where to start

Many people find clitoral stimulation the easiest place to begin, so a small clitoral vibrator or bullet is a safe first choice. If you're curious about internal stimulation, look for a slim, gently curved vibe rather than a large or heavily textured one. Start on the lowest setting and work up; it's easy to go too strong too soon.

Use a water-based lube, which is compatible with every toy material and every condom, and wash your new toy before its first use. When you're ready for more, browse rabbit vibrators or the full vibrator range.

What else should a beginner get? A gentle massage oil is a relaxed way to start, and classic vibrators keep things simple.

This guide is general information, not medical advice. Always follow the instructions that come with your product, and speak to your GP or a pharmacist first if you have a health condition, are pregnant or have any concerns.