Sex Toys Just For You…not for sharing


Sex toys are fun…we all know this. But they can play so many different roles in our lives as single people and as couples and even group situations if that floats your boat. We here quite a lot from customers who love to use toys with other people but whom also have a few toys that are just for them and we thought that was something worth writing about. 

Something Personal 

While our sex lives often involve others there are times when we are the only ones that can do it just right. It seems to be the same with certain toys. Having a toy that is really just for you when you want to play is totally fine. This is not unique to women, there are toys that men have that could be shared but are nice to have as a personal toy. 

Sex Toys Women Like to Keep For Themselves

It seems our good friend the clit sucker is a favourite to keep just for solo play. This makes sense in some ways. It is probably the only toy out there that a man really can’t use on himself…though perhaps you may have other ideas reading this. It is also quite an intense sex toy and perfect for a quick fix when time is short. Clit suckers are pretty small and easy to carry around too! We also hear that the more realistic look and feel dildos and vibrators are something some women like to keep for personal time. They can be great for those moments when only a fantasy will do and can work rather well when letting your imagination take over! Then there is the mighty rabbit! While it’s fantastic for foreplay use it is also something a lot of women keep to themselves. Rabbit vibrators really are amazing and they really hit the spot(s) so it’s kind of like the clit suckers…they work so well they lend themselves to solo play. 

Sex Toys Men Like to Keep For Themselves

 Sex toys for men is a whole different ball game…no pun intended. For a lot of guys, the sex toy thing is very new and can cause some shyness. It’s odd that women using toys is considered totally normal but some people feel it isn’t the same for the chaps! Masturbators, Flesh Lights, and sleeves are prime private toys for guys. They can bring a level of pleasure only felt with penetrative or oral sex so they often only get used when there is no one else involved. There is an element of replacing the one you are with so often these toys work as an “instead” not “as well”. Prostate toys can also be kept for solo play though they work rather well in a couple situation. Anal play for men, again, can be something they are shy about so it stands to reason the always popular prostate vibrators and massagers tend to be private toys. 


Why Private?

It is really important to remember that private is OK, and having a partner that keeps one or two things for themselves is healthy. While sharing is great we all need space, things, and time that we have as individuals. It can even be a little hard to accept that partners experience sexual pleasure without you but they can, do, and should be encouraged. It can also be loads of fun to suddenly bring one of the private collection toys into the partnership as a surprise!

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